New Perception Counselling and Psychotherapy
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Moving forward in life
My name is Phoebe Clausen-Sternwald, I am a Counsellor, Psychotherapist and a Grief Educator. I provide short-term and long-term (open-ended) counselling to adults, age over 18.
The counselling sessions can take place via Zoom WhatsApp, Team and phone call. In-person counselling is conducted in Burley, New Forest and in Rownhams, Southampton.
You may feel apprehensive about choosing the right counsellor for the issues you wish to deal with. I offer a free 20 minute session to chat with me via WhatsApp or Zoom. This is an opportunity for you to discuss your expectations for therapy, and find out if I would be a good fit for you.
Please feel free to get in touch with me for a no-obligation initial chat.
Call Me
07999 055454
The therapy I provide is trauma informed and attachment focused. It’s an integration of Humanistic Integrative Counselling, Internal Family System (IFS), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), and Mindfulness with the approach of Compassionate Inquiry and Somatic Experiencing. To read more about my work, please go to “Blog”.
In your first session, we will explore what brought you to therapy and then decide the most appropriate ways to help you at both mind and body level on your healing journey. You will be able to offload in a safe and confidential environment with no judgement. We will establish your sense of safety and self-authenticity first, before processing your difficult feelings. Your body remembers and it will guide us through your therapeutic journey. Whatever the challenges you are facing, I will walk side by side with you. We will process your difficulties together, we will make sense of them together and we will heal your wound together.
I specialise in..
Grief & Bereavement
Health Anxiety, Social Anxiety
Women's Trauma
Breast Cancer & Life limiting Illnesses
Pregnancy & Infant/Child Loss
Pregnancy Termination
Sudden & Unexpected/Traumatic Loss
Relationship Loss
Developmental Trauma
OCD
Dementia
End of life
Latest Blog
“Grief is the change we didn’t want, the loss of a planned future”
We grieve not only for the death of a loved one (including pets) but also for the loss of good health ( due to life changing injuries, cancer diagnoses and life limiting illnesses). We can also grieve the loss of a relationship or an established career. After a loss,...
Common Myth: People who talk about suicide are just seeking attention
Before entering the mental health profession, I’d never met anyone who talked about ending their own life. However, I had been more than familiar with how suicide has been, in some peoples perception, strongly associated with attention seeking. Where does the...
Therapy can’t change what happened to you, but you will find invaluable growth from what happened to you.
You may be experiencing a hard time from a recent event, or, your "old wounds" have resurfaced due to some stressful circumstances. You feel the urge to talk to someone and couldn't find the right person to offload. You may not even be able to find the right words to...
Testimonies…
Phoebe’s approach was perfect for me. She helped me to clearly identify, explore and articulate my issues, giving me the space to feel heard and seen. I felt supported, which was so important when facing into most uncomfortable situations and experiences. Not only did she support me in releasing problems for healing but she also helped me build a tool kit I can use to take care of myself.
This has been life changing for me. Phoebe listened to me and helped me to understand myself to a level that I have never had before. I feel that I will continue to build on what I have learned so that my authentic self is ever more present.
Phoebe is thoughtful, compassionate and instinctive in drawing out the root causes of emotional pain and suffering. She brings a unique set of skills to the therapy room, drawing from her life and work experience and expertise in multiple modalities which she uses to help me find relief and acceptance. I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend her to anyone who is suffering and needs help finding the pathway out of their grief.
I started therapy with Phoebe because I had some issues in the family and also because I had an issue with my relationship. Phoebe was very professional and put me at ease and started by getting background information. The sessions were conversational and after identifying certain points, progressed on by delving deeply into the past and working out if there were any behaviour patterns that I had inherited that are now manifesting as current behaviours.
Phoebe is very good at drawing out events from the past and identifying points that need further analysis. She has also given good hints at coping with various scenarios which have proved helpful. She also recommended some very thoughtful reading material. Overall, it has given a great deal of food for thought and opened up a whole new view on subjects such as shame & guilt and a new perspective on how other emotions and patterns control our lives.
I contacted Phoebe when I hit a period in my life, when I felt that everything in my life was going wrong and falling apart and I was no longer able to cope. It felt like a crisis. My experience working with Phoebe has been incredibly rewarding. Firstly, she is extremely accommodating and a very comfortable person to talk to. She treated our sessions with respect and care by creating a welcoming, non-judgemental and safe place to discuss my ongoing issues. Secondly, I found the sessions very stimulating and enlightening. Phoebe worked with me not only on steps to cope with everyday life, but to explore bigger issues that led me to a much deeper understanding of myself. Phoebe, with her characteristic subtlety and insightful questioning, made the difference for me between staying “stuck” and moving forward. By identifying and understanding my old traumas, habits and patterns I am now capable of moving forward in my life.
I was fortunate enough to be in contact with Phoebe. I booked weekly remote sessions—a decision I haven’t regretted. From the first session, Phoebe made me feel comfortable and reassured me that I was in a safe environment to discuss my emotions openly. After losing my Mum to an 8-week cancer battle, I initially thought I would benefit from bereavement counselling, but since our sessions, it was clear I’ve been holding on to deep-rooted trauma. Phoebe is professional yet still caring and able to explain things in a way that makes sense and comforts me whilst working through complex, challenging, and uncomfortable conversations. I can’t recommend Phoebe and her services enough! She’s amazing!
My previous profession is Nursing, working in the field of Palliative and Geriatric care. Please click on “About Me” to learn more about my professional background, qualifications and experiences.